The Buddha invited all to come and investigate his teachings. For the Buddha not only found a way to the end of suffering, but he actually taught a way which we can choose to follow. He observed how all human beings sought happiness and how nearly all failed to find lasting contentment. So, out of compassion, the Buddha taught the Four Noble Truths of the way things are and how we can develop the mind toward Nibbana, the highest happiness, the most perfect peace. To do this, we need to obtain instructions through teachers and books, then apply the teachings to our lives. The Buddha presented different methods of practice to suit the varied personalities of his students. All methods, however, involve a foundation of virtuous conduct, application of mindfulness, development of concentration to focus the mind, and growth of wisdom through investigation and reflection. The key point to remember is that the Buddha could only point the way; we must do the practice in order to progress toward realization of Nibbana.
To visit Thailand is to experience Thai Buddhism for the culture and religion cannot be separated. Thai's have followed and supported the Buddha's teachings for more than a thousand years. Much of Thai life centers around the local Wat(temple or monastery) where people come for worship, sermons, advice on family matters, meditalion, schooling for children, and traditional medicine. Many boys and men take on robes as novices or monks for short periods in order to fully immerse themselves in the Buddha's way of life. Men who choose to spend all their lives in robes receive great respect. Thais also welcome foreigners to come and practice the Buddha's teachings. The extremely supportive environment of a good Thai Wat or meditation centre provides inspiration and opportunity for spiritual development that's rare in the world today. Thais believe the Buddha's teachings to be priceless: no money is asked or expected in return for meditation instruction. In nearly all cases, such things as accommodations and food are free too. Generosity of the laypeople enables the Wats and meditation centres to function in this remarkable manner. Some meditation centres do charge a fee for room and board, but this is miniscule compared to charges at retreats in western countries. For stays of a few months or more, one can have the benefit of practice in Thailand for less cost than a retreat in one's home country, even after paying airfare. But of the thousands of Wats and meditation centres in Thailand, which one to choose? This book was written to help you get started and to assist in an enjoyable stay. The Wats and centres described in these pages represent some of Thailand's best meditation traditions. All welcome foreigners, usually some English is spoken or a translator can be found. Many more excellent teachers and places to practice exist too. You'll hear about some of these during your stay.
Because different Thai Wats and meditation centres offer so many practices and environments, one may wish to carefully consider which place will be most suitable. At most Wats, monks devote the majority of their time to ceremonies and to study of Buddhist scriptures. Noise, many people coming and going, and lack of a suitable teacher can make meditation practice difficult at these places. A small percentage of wats, however, do offer very supportive conditions for meditation. These wats typically have a peaceful environment, teachers who can help with difficulties, and freedom for one to choose the meditation technique that works best. Some of Thailand's forest wats follow a "Way of Life" in which the monastic discipline and daily routine receive equal emphasis with formal meditation techniques. Meditation centres specialize in practice either a particular meditation system or one of the meditator's choosing, depending on the centre. These centres have minimal or no chanting and ceremony so that maximum time can be devoted to formal practice. If you're new to Buddhist meditation, consider the 10 day retreats offered at Suan Mokkh and Wat Kow Tham in southern Thailand, western teachers conduct the retreats, so you don't have to worry about language or cultural misunderstandings. Frequent talks and interviews allow one to get a good basic understanding of practice and to clear up any doubts about the meditation techniques. Because Thais traditionally do temporary ordinations during the 3 months Rains Retreat, from mid or late July to October, expect more crowded conditions at some places then. This can be an especially good time to stay, however, as many wats place extra emphasis on practice. Monks take up residence in their chosen monastery, so there's much less coming and going. Meditators would be wise to check in by early June to make arrangements to stay for the Rains Retreat.
Teachers
Whether one is new to meditation or has done many years of practice, a
teacher or "good friend" can be of great help. The teacher also sets an
example for the wat or centre and determines the discipline. Monks
traditionally devote 5 years to their first teacher.
Daily Schedules
Some wats and centres expect laypeople to participate in group activities.
Other places let them make and follow their own schedule. A few meditation
centres offer only intensive individual practice-sitting, walking,
meals, and other activities take place in or near one's room in solitude.
Residents of most wats begin the day early, typically 3-4 a.m. in forest
monasteries and 5 a.m. in towns, with meditation and chanting. Meditation
centres expect early rising too, with sleep limited to 4 to 6 hours. Monks
and novices go on pindabat (alms round) at daybreak, then eat once or
twice in the morning, depending on the custom of the wat or centre. You
may also see maechees (8-precept nuns) on pindabat in central and
northern Thailand and pakows (anagarikas, 8-precept laymen) in the
northeast. Most wats have another period of meditation and chanting in
late afternoon or evening. The rest of the day is used for meditation, work
projects, and personal needs. At some intensive meditation centres you
will be encouraged to practice 20 hours a day.
A typical daily routine has been listed for many places; expect changes
at many wats, however, on wan phra, the Buddhist holy day that falls on
the full, new, and half moon (every 7 or 8 days). Many laypeople come to
make special offerings, hear sermons, chant the refuges and precepts, and
practice meditation. Some visitors may stay at the wat all day and night,
sleeping as little as possible. Additionally, monks gather on the full and
new moon for a recitation of the Patimokkha, the 227 rules 0f discipline
for the order.
Greeting People
Thai wat etiquette, which stems largely from the monk's code of discipline,
forms the national ideal of polite behavior in many ways. By
following Thai customs, foreigners can show appreciation to the Thai
people and ensure a welcome reception for future visitors. Gestures of
respect also help to develop kindness and sensitivity to others. The anjali
(wai or pranom) of raising hands to the chest with palms together is used
for (1) Greeting other people; (2) When speaking with a monk; (3) After
offering something to an ordained person; and (4) Before receiving
something from an ordained person. (Laypeople return the anjali but
ordained people are not supposed to return one from a layperson.) Thais
address senior monks as Ajahn, other monks as Tahn, novices as Nayn.
The title can be used by itself or preceding the Pali name; it's impolite to
use the Pali name without a title.
Body Language
Thais place great importance on body posture when around monks,
especially if the monks are teaching Dhamma. Laypeople stoop slightly
when walking past a seated monk. If walking with a monk, they try to walk
a little behind. Laypeople never talk or listen to monks from a higher
position; they sit or at least squat down before addressing a seated monk.
When listening to a sermon or talking with a monk, women usually sit in
a "mermaid" posture; men more often sit with one leg crossed in front and
the other tucked behind; the kneeling position is polite for both sexes.
Cross-legged positions are less polite and they're normally just used in
meditation. Avoid sitting with arms clasped around the raised knees
(impolite). In a chair, sit erect and attentive. Laypeople never sit on the
asana (raised seat for monks and novices), same seat or mat as a monk, or
on a monk's robes.
Bowing
Thais have many variations on the kraap, (bowing) but it's always done 3
times in respect for the "Triple Gem" of Buddha, Dhamma, and Sangha.
Follow the example of Thai laypeople around you as to when to bow;
usually one bows before being seated in a hall with a Buddha image or
when meeting with a monk and again before getting up and leaving.
Bowing can be done as a meditation and reflection on each part of the
Triple Gem. Bow slowly and mindfully, bringing the forehead all the way
to the floor, keep buttocks on the heels, elbows near the knees, and thumbs
near the eyebrows.
Offering
Giving of the monks' requisites develops respect and generosity. Thais
traditionally bring flowers, candles, and incense when they visit a wat,
though any small gift is appreciated by the monastic community. Come
up with head bowed in a kneeling or squatting position to within arms'reach
of the monk, then use both hands to place an offering into the monk's
hands. Women must place items on a cloth laid in front by the monk or
have a layman pass them; similarly; men should respect women with
shaved heads who may not want to recieve or hand anything directly. Both
men and women place food directly into the monk's bowl during pindabat.
After presenting an offering, make the anjali. Offering of money should
be placed in a donation book or given to a designated layperson.
Other Important Customs
1. Women need to understand the monk's discipline of not touching or
being alone in a closed room with a woman. Women should try to avoid
entering a library or other room where this could happen. 2. Men and
women sometimes sit in seperate areas during group meetings; you can
observe and follow the Thais of the same gender. 3. Thais use feet for
walking and standing, then tuck them away at other times; be especially
careful never to point out or stretch out one's feet in the direction of a
Buddha image or monk. 4. Shoes are generally taken off before entering
a room with a Buddha image or in any residence. 5. Sleeping pillows
should only be used to rest the head -considered sacred by the Thais- and
never for sitting on. 6. Food and drink are consumed in a seated or
squatting position. 7. A bathing cloth must be worn when using outdoor
bathing areas, common in rural areas (Thais are extremely modest).
Food
Thai food may take a bit of getting used to, as some dishes are highly
spiced. Generally you'll find the cuisine tasty and varied with plenty of
both spicy and nonspicy dishes to choose from. Meals have white rice
(sticky rice in the northeast) with meat, fish, vegetables, fruit, and sweets.
Food offered in remote forest monasteries tends to be simpler and less
varied, though is usually quite good. A few wats and centres (mentioned
in the individual descriptions) offer vegetarian food. Like the monks and
nuns, lay visitors normally eat only between sunrise and mid-day. This
rule of the Buddha's makes the monastic community easy to support and
contributes to moderation in eating. (If needed for medical reasons, food
can also be taken after mid-day at most places.)
Clothing
Thais always wear modest clothing that's clean and neat to a wat or meditation
centre. They avoid tight-fitting or bright-colored clothing that
might be distracting to others. Shirts and blouses have sleeves. Men wear
long pants; women use skirts that come below the knees. Some wats
and centres ask that men wear white clothing and that women wear either all
white or a white blouse and black skirt. Clothing can occasionally be
borrowed or you can outfit yourself in a local shop at low cost. Even when
not required, the wearing of white serves as a reminder that one is
undertaking a spiritual life.
Climate
Thailand has 3 seasons, the cool from Nov. through Feb., hot from March
through June, and the rainy from July through October. (The rainy season
in the south lasts through January.) Pronounced vacations can occur from
region to region and year to year. The northeast has the most distinct
seasons; lows can get down to 0-15 degrees C (32-59 F) in the cool
months; hot-season highs can exceed 40 degrees C (104 F). The north has
a similar climate, but doesn't get as hot. Central Thailand stays warm to
hot year-round. The south has a tropical climate; the region rarely sees
extremes of heat or cold. South and central Thailand have high humidity,
which decreases as one moves inland to the northern and and northeastem
regions. Any season can be fine for a visit to Thailand -just be prepared with
warm clothes for the cool season in the north and northeast, umbrella
or poncho for the rainy season, and light-weight cotton clothing for the
hot season. People from cool climates will have an easier time adjusting
to the climate if they arrive in the cool or rainy seasons.
Health
You're likely to stay healthy in Thailand, thanks to high standards of
hygiene and medical care. Malaria does exist in some outlying areas;
current advice urges people to use netting and repellent from dusk to dawn,
when disease-carrying mosquitos bite, rather than rely on preventative
pills. The pills can have bad side effects; also, they don't protect against
all malaria strains. If you get an unexplained fever, especially a recurrent
one, obtain a blood test right away; a doctor can then detemmine the most
effective treatment.
Getting There
You can reach Thailand easily by air from most major cities in the world
and by land from Malaysia and possibly from Laos. Sorting through all
the fares and restrictions of airlines can be difficult, so let a good travel
agent do the work for you. The best deals can often be found in cities with
large Asian populations; check ads in the Sunday travel section of newspaper
of these cities. Discounted fares from agents specializing in Asia
can be hundreds of dollars less than the cheapest fare the airline will quote
directly. Carefully check restriction -cheap (and some not so cheap)
tickets won't be refundable and generally don't allow route changes. Some
roundtrip tickets allow only short visits of 45 days to 6 months; shop
around for a one-year fare or just buy a one-way ticket if you might want
to stay longer. Bangkok travel agencies have great deals on international
flights, though be sure to stick to well-established agencies.
Getting Around
Thailand has a well-developed public transport system of train, bus, and
air routes. Getting around is easier, more efficient, and less expensive than
in most western and Asian countries. Taxis offer good value too, though
one often has to bargain. A little Thai helps a lot with local transport. The
Lonely Planet book Thailand; a travel survival kit by Joe Cummings has
good information on getting to and around the country, as well as details
on the sights and culture.
Visas
Check visa requirements before you come. Most people obtain a Tourist
Visa (good for 2 months and extendable one month more). Longer-term
visitors can try for a Non-Immigrant Visa (good for at least 3 months and
possibly extendable); a stay of more than 3 months can get complicated
with various sponsorship letters required; ask advice in Thailand. Often
it's easiest to zip down to the Thai Consulate in Penang, Malaysia, for a
new visa, then return for another 3 months; this consulate issues Non-Immigrant
visas more easily than most if you have a good reason (such as meditation
practice).
Language
Ability to speak Thai will allow you to communicate directly with all of
the teachers in Thailand, most of whom speak little or no English. You'll
also benefit from the many Dhamma talks in Thai available on cassette
recordings. The language has very simple grammar, so most of the effort
in speaking Thai goes into learning vocabulary and the all-important 5 tones.
The written alphabet can be learned along with the vacabulary or
studied later. One or 2 months of intensive language study will enable you
to understand basic meditation instructions and much of the material
presented in Dhamma talks. Bangkok has some good language schools.