Why were we born ?
First of all, is this question a significant one for the average man?
I think we can take it that this question is one that everyone is
interested in and puzzled over. There may, however, be some
who will raise an objection
'The Buddha taught the non-existence of "the being," " the individual,"
"the self," "you," and "me". He taught that there is no self to be
born. So the problem "Why were we born?" does not arise!"
This sort of objection is valid only at the very highest mental level,
for someone who himself knows Freedom but for the ordinary
man who does not yet know Freedom it is not a valid objection
since it is not relevant, not to the point. A person who does not
as yet know Dharma thoroughly is bound to feel himself involved
in the prucess of birth and to have a great many problems and
questions. He has no idea for what purpose he has been born.
It is only an Arahant, one who has gone all the way in Buddha-
Dharma, who will really realize that there is no
birth, and on "being" or "parson" or "self" to be born. For an Arahant
the question "Why was I born?" does not arise. But for anyone who
has not yet attained the stage of Arahantship, even though he may
be at one of the lower stages of insight such as Stream entry, and in
whom the idea of "self" and "of self" does still arise, the question
"Why was I born ?' very definitely does exist.
So we are putting the question "Why was I born ?" and we are taking
it that this question is a relevant one for anyone who is not as yet an
Arahant.
Now let us have a look at the different ideas that naturally come up
in the minds of different people in answer to this question "Why were
we born ?"
If we ask a child for what purpose he was born, he will simply say
that he was born in order to be able to play and have fun and games.
A teenage boy or girl is bound to answer that he or she was born for
the sake of good looks, dating, and flirting. And an adult, parent,
householder, will probably say he was born to earn a living, to save
up money for his retirement and his children. These are the kinds of
answers we are bound to get.
A parson who has become old and feeble, is more than likely to have
the foolish idea that he was born in order to die and be born again,
and again, and again, over and over. Very few people consider that,
having been born, we
shall simply die and that will be the end of it.. Right from early
childhood we have been trained and conditioned to this idea of
another world, another birth to come after death, with the result that it
has become well and truly fixed in our minds. In any culture having
its origins in India the majority of people, Buddhists, Hindus, and
others, adhere to this doctrine of rebirth after death. So people
who are too old and senile to be able to think for themselves are
bound to answer that they were born to die and be reborn.
Generally these are the kinds of answer we get. If we go into it in
rather more detail, we shall find some people saying they were
born to eat becouse they happen to have a weakness for food. And
them are bound to be some, those who are permanent slaves to
alcohol and value nothing more highly, who will say they were born
to drink. Others were born to gamble and would part with their own
skin before they would give up their vicious habit. And there are all
sorts of other things, some of them utterly trivial, in which people
become so wrapped up that they come to regand them as the best
of all things. Some people, usually the so-callecl well educated
ones, set a lot of value on prestige, they are very concerned about
making a name for themselves. Such people were born for the
sake of name and fame.
So some people consider they were born for the sake of eating,
some for the sake of sensuality, and some for
the sake of name and fame.
The first of these, eating, is a necessity, but people
carry it so far that they become infatuated with taste and
addicted to eating. At the present time there is evidence
of a general increase of interest in food. The iste of increase
of newspaper advertisements promoting the art of eating
would Lead one to conclude that not a few people are
obsessed with eating and worship food. These born eaters
form the first group.
The second group comprises those who were born
for sensuality, for every kind of pleasure and delight
obtainable by way of eye, ear, nose, tongue, and body. Most
people when they have satisfied themselves with eating go
off in search of sense pleasures. Their subjection to the
power of sensuality may be such that they can rightly be
described as slaves to it. Ultimately all the kinds of
infatuation we have mentioned so far can be include under
sensuality. Even ideas in the mind, the sixth of the senses,
can be a sourcs of delight amounting to infatuation. It can
be said that such people live for the sake of sensuality,
for the sake of visual, auditory, olfactory. gustatory, tactile,
and mental things serving as objects of desire. They
constitute the second group.
The third group consists of those born for the sake
of name and fame. They have been conditioned to worship
prestige, to the extent that they would sacrifice their very
lives for it. Name and fame, whether the means employed
for attaining it bring benefit to others or only to the individual
concerned, can still be of considerable worth, and in terms
of worldly values is not something to be condemned. But
in terms of absolute values, to go so far as to become a
slave to name and fame is a tragedy. It by no means puts
an end to the unsatisfactory condition (dukka).
So eating, sensuality, and prestige all lead to various
kinds of obsession.
Among poorer people, we hear more than anything
else of the need to earn a living in order to get the
necessities of life. For the poor man nothing is so important
or necessary as earning a living. This then is his major
concern, and it can be said that he was born to earn a
living. He is all the time ploughing his fields, or attending
to his business, or whatever it may be, so that this becomes
his one and only concern, and he can never have enough
of it. In other words he really feels he was born to earn
a living, and has never regarded anything as more important
than this. The reason for this is that he has never moved
among spiritually advanced people, never heard Dharma
from them. It is fairly certain that he has moved only among
his follow worldlings and heard only the talk of worldlings.
This is something well worth thinking about. Such a person
considers his way of life thoroughly right and proper and
worthwhile; but in reality it is only half right, or even less.
The magnitude of such a man's obsession with material
things shows that he lives to get much more than just
enough to eat.
Now what each one of us has to concern himself
with, and examine, and come to understand cleary is why
we were born to earn a living and stay alive. When we have
come to understand property for what ultimate purpose we
are here in this life. we realize that this business of earning
a living is something quite incidental. It is subsidiary to
another big and important purpose, the real purpose for
which we were born. Do we earn a living simply in order
to stay alive and go on endlessly accumulating more and
more wealth and property ? Or do we do it in order to
achieve some higher purpose ?
For most people this endless accumulation of wealth
and property does seem to be the purpose of earning a
living. Few people stop short at earning just enough to
satisfy their basic wants, to feed themselves and family, to
provide the necessities for a happy life free from misery.
For most people no amount of wealth and property is
enough. Most don't know where to stop, and have so much
they don't know what to do with it. There are plenty like
this in the world.
In terms of religion this kind of behaviour is
considered, either explicitly or implicitly, to be sinful. In
Christianity the accumulaltion of more wealth than necessary
is explicitly stated to be a sin. Other religions say much
the same. A person who goes on endlessly accumulating
and hoarding wealth and property, who has become in some
way or other infatuated and obsessed by it, is regarded as
deluded and a sinner. He is not as much of a sinner as
someone who kills, but he is a sinner nevertheless. This
then is how we ought to see it. We ought not to live just
in order to go on endlessly accumulating wealth and
property. We ought to regard it as simply a means to an
end. We ought to acquire wealth simply to provide for our
basic wants, in order that we can then go in search of
something else. something better then wealth. And just what
that something is we shall discuss later on.
Now the man who lives for the sake of sensuality
ought to give a thought to an old saying: "Seeking pleasure
in eating, sleeping, and sex, and avoiding danger all these
man and beast have in common. What sets man apart is
Dharma. Without Dharma man is no different from the
beasts."
This is an old saying dating back to pre-Buddhist
times, and no doubt also current at the time of the Buddha.
In any case it certainly accords with Buddhist principles.
Human beings normally feel the same way as lower animals
towards eating, sleeping, and sex, and danger in the form
of disease, pain, and enemies, The lower animals can
handle these things just as well as human beings.
Preoccupation with these things, which any animal has
access to, indicates a none too high level of intelligence.
And because those objects of sensuality have such an
influence over the mind, it is difficult for any ordinary being
to recognize them for what they are and break free from
them.
To live for sensuality by way of eye, ear, nose,
tongue, body, and mind will never lead to Liberation. The
average run of people are far removed from the top level,
the highest stage attainable in human birth. Having become
obsessed with sense objects, they have got stuck half-way
along the road, mid-way towards the goal. They are not to
be taken as a model. If this sensuality were really as
precious as they seem to think it is, then they, together with
their animal counterparts, ought to be rated the highest of
beings.
At this point we ought to mention that even celestial
beings dwelling in the "heaven of sensuality" (Kamavaca
radevata) are in no way especially well-off. They too are
subject to suffering and anxiety. They too are impure,
constantly defiled by their inappropriate bodily, vocal, and
mental actions, Devatas of this type, whenever they succeed
in elevating themselves, leave their heaven of sensuality
and go off in seanch of Buddha Dhamma and Sangha. Sensuality,
even in its highest form, is not by any means the
highest thing for man, and no man should maintain that
this was the purpose for which he was born.
Now we come to prestige. For a man to think he
was born for the sake of name and fame is a tragedy. A
glance at this thing known as prestige shows it to be
thoroughly insubstantial. It depends on other people's having
a high regard for one; and it may well be that, though noone
realizes it, this high regard is quite unfounded. When the
majority of people are deluded, slow-witted, undiscerning,
lacking any knowledge of Dharma, the things for which they
have a high regard and to which they give prestige are
bound to be pretty ordinary and average things. in keeping
wth their ordinary and average sense of values. In their
eyes the things advocated and taught by spiritually
advanced people will hardly rate very high. In fact we
invariably find that the more concerned people are with
name and fame, the more worldly are the things they rate
highly. The person who deservers to be rated highest is the
one who is able to renounce worldly values and promote
the happiness of mankind; but in practice we find all the
prestige going to the people responsible for adding to the
world's confusion and distress. This is an example of
prestige in the eyes of the worldling, the man stuck here
in the world.
To say that we were born to gain prestige is as
ridiculous as to say we were born to pursue sensuality or
to eat. All these views are equally pitiful. They differ only
in degree of sophistication. In short then, there is no doubt
whatsoever that neither eating, our sensuality, nor prestige
is the highest thing, the objective for which a Buddhist ought
to aim.
Now let us have a look at a saying of the Buddha
which I trelleve may help us to answer the question of why
we were born.
Sankhara parama dukkhaTo understand the first line of this quotation, we have first of all to understand property the word "sankhara". This word has several meanings. It can refer either to the physical, the body, or as in the present case to the mental, the mind. Literally "sankhara" means simply "compound" (both noun and verb), that is, the function we refer to as "compounding" (and the compound that results therefrom).
Nibbanam paramam sukham
Etam natva vathabhutam
Santimaggam va bruhayeti.
Compounding is utter misery,
Nirvana is highest bliss.
Really knowing; this truth.
One is on the Path to Peace.